Now, backing up a bit. On my way into work my mother called my to tell me that my 44 year old cousin Bobby, who has been fighting leukemia for 8 months told the doctors at Roswell Park Cancer Institute today that he wanted everything unplugged. Essentially, he wants to die! He has been in too much pain for too long and the doctor's are telling him there's nothing they can do about his internal bleeding anymore. So now it's a wait and see for his two natural kids, four step kids, and his wife, not to mention the rest of the extended family. So sad!